Right and wrong

Ok...here is the deal. It makes me feel good...It makes me happy...Who is to say that it is wrong? After all what is right and what is wrong? Doesn't it vary from person to person, family to family, society to society, culture to culture, era to era...

So what is right and what is wrong? Isn't it all in your heart?

Quote I saw in the gym this morning...

There are three kinds of people....

People who make things happen,

People who watch things happen,

and

People who wonder what happened...

Which kind are you?

I see you

Have you really "seen" someone? By seeing I do not mean looking at their face and recognizing them. By seeing, I mean when you look at that someone you feel like you know him/her deep down. Their secret thoughts, the way they think, where their heart is... Once in a while it happens with that one person...someone close. Unwittingly we start seeing them. And things will never be the same. It is such a burden to carry. It is such a big burden. Why?
Cos, you cannot/would not react to the way they behave or to the things they say, the same way you do with others. Cos, you have seen them deep down. It is easy to get angry and let go of him/her and stop caring for someone when you believe their facade. But, now that you know what is deep down it is hard to stop caring, hard to let go, it is so hard even to stay mad at them.
It was easier before....

Love

Can you love someone so much that Sometimes when you think about them you forget breathing?!?

One of my favourite songs....

Takes my breath away every time I listen. Love Iglesias.

When I am real old...

When I am real real old.....I hope I have enough good memories to think back on and smile about. I hope I have enough experiences to feel content about the life I lived. When I am real real old, I hope I have nothing to regret about....just a life well lived and worth pondering over.

Changing the reality map..

"What happens when one has striven long and hard to develop a working view of the world, a seemingly useful, workable map, and then is confronted with new information suggesting that that view is wrong and the map needs to be largely redrawn? The painful effort required seems frightening, almost overwhelming. What we do more often than not, and usually unconsciously, is to ignore the new information. Often this act of ignoring is much more than passive. We may denounce the new information as false, dangerous, heretical, the work of the devil. We may actually crusade against it, and even attempt to manipulate the world so as to make it conform to our view of reality. Rather than try to change the map, an individual may try to destroy the new reality. Sadly,such a person may expend much more energy ultimately in defending an outmoded view of the world than would have been required to revise and correct it in the first phase" - an excerpt from "The Road Less Travelled" By M.Scott Peck